Monday, December 29, 2008

Happy new year!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



I wish a very happy new year to all the soul mate love and wish that all their dream come true with this coming year. I wish this coming year brings a lots happiness to all those who are in love. I wish all those who are in love get along with each other for their rest of life without any difficulties and sorrows. I wish all those who are in love get their destiny with coming year. I want this coming year to be the most amazing and memorable year for all those who are in love and want to be together forever and ever and ever..... All my heartily wishes are with those who are in true love with each other so that they get have blossom in their love. I would be the happiest person in the whole world if all those who love each other truly get along with each other for their rest of life and lead a most beautiful life they ever thought of.

Monday, December 22, 2008

Sacha pyar kya hai??????????

Saccha pyar kya hai?
Kya pyar Jeene Ki wajah hota hai?
Kya pyar ka matlab milna hota hai ya phir bichadna hota hai?
Kya pyar khushi hai?
Kya pyar gum hai?
Kya pyar hi sab kuchh hai?

Yeh saare sawaal kitne uljhe hue lagte hai…. Kya kabhi aapne gaur Kiya hai ke pyar kya hota hai… Aaj kal jise pucho Har koi Yeh hi kehta main pyar Karta Hun aur meri girl friend hai and mera boy friend hai… kya Aaj pyar itna sasta ho Gaya hai Ki Hume Itni asaani se mil jata hai... Kabhi kabhi toh aisa lagta hai jaise pyar Har Gali Ki nukad par milta hai, Aaj kal koi Saccha pyar Karta bhi hai ya Nahin… kyunki pyar toh Woh hai jise Hume kabhi koi taklif Nahin hoti... Kyunki pyar toh Woh hai Jo humare saath Na Hote hue bhi humare saath rehta hai... Kyunki pyar Toh Woh hai jis ke bare main sochte hi humare chehre pe muskurahat aaye... Kyunki pyar Toh Woh hai Jo hum pe pura bharosa Karta ho... Kyunki pyar Toh Woh hai Jo Yeh ehsaas dilate hai jaise koi hai Jo umra bhar saath nibhayega… kyunki pyar ka matlab sirf paana Nahin khona bhi hai... Kyunki pyar Toh Woh hai Jo jism se Hokar aatma me bas jaata hai…Aur kyunki Ab main pyar ke bare mein jitna bhi kahungi Woh kam hi hoga. Aur Ab mujhe Yeh lagta hai Ki shayad tumhe Yeh pata chal Gaya hoga Ki pyar kya hai.

Doston pyar KO khel mat samjho iski gehrayi KO samjho tab tumhe pata chalege agar sacche pyar ka saath ho toh Zindagi Kitni hassen hoti hai. Har mushkil asaani se Tal jati hai. Pyar khuda ka Woh hassen tofa hai Jo Har kisiko Nahin milta. Log saari umra sacche pyar ke liye tadapte par Yeh tofa sirf kismat walon KO milta hai. Isliye kehti hun agar tumhare zindagi main sacche pyar ka saath ho toh uski izzat karo aur is Kadar sambhal kar rakhna ke Kisi bhi Chingari se is par koi aanch Na aa paye. Sabse khaas baat jahan bhi sacha pyar hota hai wahan pe kabhi “dhoka” jaise shabd Nahin hote kyunki. Sacha saathi aur sacha pyar Hume kabhi bhi dhoka Nahin dete, woh humse Isliye dur chale jaate kyunki unhe lagta hai Ki issi main hi humari aur sab Ki bhalayi hai.

Kehte hai ki pyar ko paane ke liye bahut saari mushkillo ka samna karma padta hai, har tarah ki baatein har kisise sunni padti hai… par agar hum humare pyar ko paane main kaamyab ho jate hai toh is se badkar koi khushi Nahin hoti. Aur Agar humare pyar ko sab ki razamandi nahin milti hai toh hume us pyar ko anjaam Nahin dena Chahiye, kyunki dusro ka dil Todkar bhala hum kaise khush reh sakte hai. Log maante hai ki pyar hi sab kuch hota hai par main is baat se bilkul bhi sehmat Nahin hun kyunki pyar sab kuchh Nahin hota hai woh sirf humare zindagi ka ek hissa hota hai. Ek rishtey ko nibhane ke liye, ek vaade ke liye… hum baaki saare rishtey or baaki saare vaado ko kaise bhul sakte hai. Who pyar hum kaise bhul sakte hai jiski wajah se hume yeh pyar mila, yeh zindagi mili, kyunki agar unhone yeh zindagi hume Nahin di hoti toh hum is pyar ko kaise paate. Doston Pyar karo toh sacha karo warna mat karo par aisa bhi mat karo ki tum tumhare apno ko hi taklif do. Pyar aisa karo jise har koi khush ho. Aur agar kisi bhi mod par bichadna bhi pade toh has kar vidah ho… aur yeh sochkar vidah ho ki yeh mera dharma hai aur mujhe nibhana hai…“Ek vivah aisa bhi” ka ek gaana jo aapko is mod par heemat de -
“maang raha hai pyar vidayee,
Haske vidah ho sanam,
Dono nibhaye apna dharma, dono nibhaye apna dharma…”

Monday, December 15, 2008

How to Know if You've Married Your Soul Mate?


What are the chances of marrying a soul mate? How do you know if you have married your soul mate? What if you realize you didn't marry your soul mate? Do you have to marry a soul mate to have a successful marriage?
Maybe you've married your soul mate and just didn't realize it. Check out this list of soul mate partnership characteristics.
Here's How:
1. In order to recognize your soul mate, you must first know yourself.
2. Soul mate marriages can be well balanced, strong, and positive. There should be a lack of intimidation, manipulation, or abuse in a marriage of soul mates. A soul mate should make you feel safe.
3. A relationship with a soul mate is a natural fit and usually feels like it is meant to be. Even so, every marriage, even a marriage of soul mates, takes the two spouses giving priority to their marriage relationship.
4. A soul mate partner often feels like a mirror to their spouse. Though this does sound a bit boring.
5. A marriage to a soul mate is filled with honesty and support. But then, so are successful marriages of couples who don't believe they are soul mates.
6. There is a sense of familiarity and mutuality in a marriage to a soul mate as well as in long lasting marriages.
7. Soul mate marriages can be healthy, passionate and harmonious. Soul mate partners can easily get a lot done by working together.
8. Couples who are soul mates often take joy in watching the growth of one another.
9. A soul mate will accept who you are, will bring out the best in you, challenge you, and are your best friend. A soul mate will not require you to change. Hopefully, this is true of your spouse -- soul mate or not.
10. Soul mates relish small moments together and cherish their commitment to their marriage. Again -- shouldn't this be a way happy married couples live?
11. Take a Jungian personality type quiz to compare your personality styles.
Tips:
1. Be wary of looking for a mate who is ideal and who feels and thinks exactly the way you do. No one can live up to that kind of standard. Soul mates don't agree on everything.
2. Don't use the soul mate concept as an excuse to walk away from your commitment to your marriage.
3. Remember you can still have difficult times even when married to your soul mate. Romance is a gamble. Marriage takes attentiveness.
4. Bottom line: Marrying a soul mate isn't necessary in order to have a successful and happy marriage.

Thursday, December 4, 2008

God Reveal Himself In Soulmate Love

People have been asking God for centuries to please bring soul mates into their lives, and some have died in this lifetime without having seen one.

The Lord has put some exposure to me that, the soulmate is NOT somebody somewhere waiting for you, who will show up with all the features and characters you have drawn in YOUR “what to look for in a partner” list.

He says the choice is BROAD, there is no people waiting somewhere, but only JOURNEYS to be taken.

What He means is that “anyone” you are committed to has a potential and a chance of being your soulmate.

He further explains that with commitment to this person, you should have a major ingredient called TRUTH, and with truth, the relationship has to be exclusive, with NO extramarital partners to pollute the relationship. God thrives only where there is truth.

The couple will go through the initial attraction, then with time through to the normal stages of reality, what they both really are, with truth constantly existing, God suddenly shows up!

Then the couple will sense a new feeling of closeness, a sudden intimacy that has never been felt before, the physical touches will be different tied with warmness, the emotions will be communicated without really talking much, and suddenly the woman will look more beautiful and the man more handsome, though they were both not initially like that, and little will they know that God has just joined them.

He is “Love”, this feeling of more real love is God Himself, and he came to strengthen their commitment, so this soul-like feeling which people call soulmate love is actually God’s Presence!

This state is not forever, it needs nourishing, acknowledging His presence, thanking Him religiously, praising Him, exulting Him and blessing Him in prayer.

It is a feeling that you will know is not normal, you will know that there has never been such a thing; you will ask yourself what happened. You will ask yourself questions you cannot answer, but with your physical eye you will not understand, but with your spiritual eye, you will come to know that it is God’s presence.

But, because we are all made of flesh and we are imperfect, you will fight, hurt and fall, it is in those fights that your souls will prove how compatible they are, you will evolve to ONENESS or dissolve if you cannot make it.

If dissolving is detected, ask God for all the godly traits, patience, submission, forgiveness, obedience, humility, respect, etc, as those fights will need all of that, but the devil will come your way with pride, unforgiveness, suspicions, lies, adultery etc. Pray harder!

This is called a Relationship Storm, it also passes when you ask God’s intervention, and you could die in a storm without God!

With His intervention, you will find that you love each other more after the fights than ever before. He sometimes puts those tests to heighten the relationship, He wants you to move to higher grounds to go and meet the Spirit which is Him’

Don’t worry, the one that leaves the commitment to go elsewhere to somebody else, is not leaving with God, he or she is leaving with himself, God does not follow lies, wherever they go they will have to prove themselves with money or good sex until they run out of styles and get bored with each other.

But in God, you don’t need more money and many styles, you can have sex doing the sameness, but with God’s presence it feels electrifying and new all the time.

Stay true to one another and seek His presence all the time.

Stay Blessed!