Monday, December 29, 2008

Happy new year!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



I wish a very happy new year to all the soul mate love and wish that all their dream come true with this coming year. I wish this coming year brings a lots happiness to all those who are in love. I wish all those who are in love get along with each other for their rest of life without any difficulties and sorrows. I wish all those who are in love get their destiny with coming year. I want this coming year to be the most amazing and memorable year for all those who are in love and want to be together forever and ever and ever..... All my heartily wishes are with those who are in true love with each other so that they get have blossom in their love. I would be the happiest person in the whole world if all those who love each other truly get along with each other for their rest of life and lead a most beautiful life they ever thought of.

Monday, December 22, 2008

Sacha pyar kya hai??????????

Saccha pyar kya hai?
Kya pyar Jeene Ki wajah hota hai?
Kya pyar ka matlab milna hota hai ya phir bichadna hota hai?
Kya pyar khushi hai?
Kya pyar gum hai?
Kya pyar hi sab kuchh hai?

Yeh saare sawaal kitne uljhe hue lagte hai…. Kya kabhi aapne gaur Kiya hai ke pyar kya hota hai… Aaj kal jise pucho Har koi Yeh hi kehta main pyar Karta Hun aur meri girl friend hai and mera boy friend hai… kya Aaj pyar itna sasta ho Gaya hai Ki Hume Itni asaani se mil jata hai... Kabhi kabhi toh aisa lagta hai jaise pyar Har Gali Ki nukad par milta hai, Aaj kal koi Saccha pyar Karta bhi hai ya Nahin… kyunki pyar toh Woh hai jise Hume kabhi koi taklif Nahin hoti... Kyunki pyar toh Woh hai Jo humare saath Na Hote hue bhi humare saath rehta hai... Kyunki pyar Toh Woh hai jis ke bare main sochte hi humare chehre pe muskurahat aaye... Kyunki pyar Toh Woh hai Jo hum pe pura bharosa Karta ho... Kyunki pyar Toh Woh hai Jo Yeh ehsaas dilate hai jaise koi hai Jo umra bhar saath nibhayega… kyunki pyar ka matlab sirf paana Nahin khona bhi hai... Kyunki pyar Toh Woh hai Jo jism se Hokar aatma me bas jaata hai…Aur kyunki Ab main pyar ke bare mein jitna bhi kahungi Woh kam hi hoga. Aur Ab mujhe Yeh lagta hai Ki shayad tumhe Yeh pata chal Gaya hoga Ki pyar kya hai.

Doston pyar KO khel mat samjho iski gehrayi KO samjho tab tumhe pata chalege agar sacche pyar ka saath ho toh Zindagi Kitni hassen hoti hai. Har mushkil asaani se Tal jati hai. Pyar khuda ka Woh hassen tofa hai Jo Har kisiko Nahin milta. Log saari umra sacche pyar ke liye tadapte par Yeh tofa sirf kismat walon KO milta hai. Isliye kehti hun agar tumhare zindagi main sacche pyar ka saath ho toh uski izzat karo aur is Kadar sambhal kar rakhna ke Kisi bhi Chingari se is par koi aanch Na aa paye. Sabse khaas baat jahan bhi sacha pyar hota hai wahan pe kabhi “dhoka” jaise shabd Nahin hote kyunki. Sacha saathi aur sacha pyar Hume kabhi bhi dhoka Nahin dete, woh humse Isliye dur chale jaate kyunki unhe lagta hai Ki issi main hi humari aur sab Ki bhalayi hai.

Kehte hai ki pyar ko paane ke liye bahut saari mushkillo ka samna karma padta hai, har tarah ki baatein har kisise sunni padti hai… par agar hum humare pyar ko paane main kaamyab ho jate hai toh is se badkar koi khushi Nahin hoti. Aur Agar humare pyar ko sab ki razamandi nahin milti hai toh hume us pyar ko anjaam Nahin dena Chahiye, kyunki dusro ka dil Todkar bhala hum kaise khush reh sakte hai. Log maante hai ki pyar hi sab kuch hota hai par main is baat se bilkul bhi sehmat Nahin hun kyunki pyar sab kuchh Nahin hota hai woh sirf humare zindagi ka ek hissa hota hai. Ek rishtey ko nibhane ke liye, ek vaade ke liye… hum baaki saare rishtey or baaki saare vaado ko kaise bhul sakte hai. Who pyar hum kaise bhul sakte hai jiski wajah se hume yeh pyar mila, yeh zindagi mili, kyunki agar unhone yeh zindagi hume Nahin di hoti toh hum is pyar ko kaise paate. Doston Pyar karo toh sacha karo warna mat karo par aisa bhi mat karo ki tum tumhare apno ko hi taklif do. Pyar aisa karo jise har koi khush ho. Aur agar kisi bhi mod par bichadna bhi pade toh has kar vidah ho… aur yeh sochkar vidah ho ki yeh mera dharma hai aur mujhe nibhana hai…“Ek vivah aisa bhi” ka ek gaana jo aapko is mod par heemat de -
“maang raha hai pyar vidayee,
Haske vidah ho sanam,
Dono nibhaye apna dharma, dono nibhaye apna dharma…”

Monday, December 15, 2008

How to Know if You've Married Your Soul Mate?


What are the chances of marrying a soul mate? How do you know if you have married your soul mate? What if you realize you didn't marry your soul mate? Do you have to marry a soul mate to have a successful marriage?
Maybe you've married your soul mate and just didn't realize it. Check out this list of soul mate partnership characteristics.
Here's How:
1. In order to recognize your soul mate, you must first know yourself.
2. Soul mate marriages can be well balanced, strong, and positive. There should be a lack of intimidation, manipulation, or abuse in a marriage of soul mates. A soul mate should make you feel safe.
3. A relationship with a soul mate is a natural fit and usually feels like it is meant to be. Even so, every marriage, even a marriage of soul mates, takes the two spouses giving priority to their marriage relationship.
4. A soul mate partner often feels like a mirror to their spouse. Though this does sound a bit boring.
5. A marriage to a soul mate is filled with honesty and support. But then, so are successful marriages of couples who don't believe they are soul mates.
6. There is a sense of familiarity and mutuality in a marriage to a soul mate as well as in long lasting marriages.
7. Soul mate marriages can be healthy, passionate and harmonious. Soul mate partners can easily get a lot done by working together.
8. Couples who are soul mates often take joy in watching the growth of one another.
9. A soul mate will accept who you are, will bring out the best in you, challenge you, and are your best friend. A soul mate will not require you to change. Hopefully, this is true of your spouse -- soul mate or not.
10. Soul mates relish small moments together and cherish their commitment to their marriage. Again -- shouldn't this be a way happy married couples live?
11. Take a Jungian personality type quiz to compare your personality styles.
Tips:
1. Be wary of looking for a mate who is ideal and who feels and thinks exactly the way you do. No one can live up to that kind of standard. Soul mates don't agree on everything.
2. Don't use the soul mate concept as an excuse to walk away from your commitment to your marriage.
3. Remember you can still have difficult times even when married to your soul mate. Romance is a gamble. Marriage takes attentiveness.
4. Bottom line: Marrying a soul mate isn't necessary in order to have a successful and happy marriage.

Thursday, December 4, 2008

God Reveal Himself In Soulmate Love

People have been asking God for centuries to please bring soul mates into their lives, and some have died in this lifetime without having seen one.

The Lord has put some exposure to me that, the soulmate is NOT somebody somewhere waiting for you, who will show up with all the features and characters you have drawn in YOUR “what to look for in a partner” list.

He says the choice is BROAD, there is no people waiting somewhere, but only JOURNEYS to be taken.

What He means is that “anyone” you are committed to has a potential and a chance of being your soulmate.

He further explains that with commitment to this person, you should have a major ingredient called TRUTH, and with truth, the relationship has to be exclusive, with NO extramarital partners to pollute the relationship. God thrives only where there is truth.

The couple will go through the initial attraction, then with time through to the normal stages of reality, what they both really are, with truth constantly existing, God suddenly shows up!

Then the couple will sense a new feeling of closeness, a sudden intimacy that has never been felt before, the physical touches will be different tied with warmness, the emotions will be communicated without really talking much, and suddenly the woman will look more beautiful and the man more handsome, though they were both not initially like that, and little will they know that God has just joined them.

He is “Love”, this feeling of more real love is God Himself, and he came to strengthen their commitment, so this soul-like feeling which people call soulmate love is actually God’s Presence!

This state is not forever, it needs nourishing, acknowledging His presence, thanking Him religiously, praising Him, exulting Him and blessing Him in prayer.

It is a feeling that you will know is not normal, you will know that there has never been such a thing; you will ask yourself what happened. You will ask yourself questions you cannot answer, but with your physical eye you will not understand, but with your spiritual eye, you will come to know that it is God’s presence.

But, because we are all made of flesh and we are imperfect, you will fight, hurt and fall, it is in those fights that your souls will prove how compatible they are, you will evolve to ONENESS or dissolve if you cannot make it.

If dissolving is detected, ask God for all the godly traits, patience, submission, forgiveness, obedience, humility, respect, etc, as those fights will need all of that, but the devil will come your way with pride, unforgiveness, suspicions, lies, adultery etc. Pray harder!

This is called a Relationship Storm, it also passes when you ask God’s intervention, and you could die in a storm without God!

With His intervention, you will find that you love each other more after the fights than ever before. He sometimes puts those tests to heighten the relationship, He wants you to move to higher grounds to go and meet the Spirit which is Him’

Don’t worry, the one that leaves the commitment to go elsewhere to somebody else, is not leaving with God, he or she is leaving with himself, God does not follow lies, wherever they go they will have to prove themselves with money or good sex until they run out of styles and get bored with each other.

But in God, you don’t need more money and many styles, you can have sex doing the sameness, but with God’s presence it feels electrifying and new all the time.

Stay true to one another and seek His presence all the time.

Stay Blessed!

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

THE MOST BEAUTIFUL LOVE SONG......... I JUST WANNA SPEND MY LIFE WITH YOU...........

Like a dream you can't explain love can chase a beating of your heart
Like the sunshining in the rain love can make your whole world fall apart

All i wanted now
I just wanna spend my life with you
Time will show me how
Suddenly everything has turned me inside out
Suddenly love is the thing that I can't live without

You are my dream my love my life
I just wanna spend my life with you
You are the one that makes me smile
I just wanna spend my life with you

God I love somehow... I just wanna spend my life with you
You can show me how

Suddenly everything has turned me inside out
Suddenly love is the thing that I can't live without

You are my dream my love my life
I just wanna spend my life with you
You are the one that makes me smile
I just wanna spend my life with you

What have you done to me?
Is this how its meant to be
Can't control this feeling in my heart
I can see better days glowing inside your eyes
And I know you feel it in your heart

All I wanted now
I just wanna spend my life with you
Time will show me how
Suddenly everything has turned me inside out
Suddenly loves the thing that I can't live without

You are my dream my love my life
I just wanna spend my life with you
You are the one that makes me smile
I just wanna spend my life with you

Love is a crazy thing
Its like when you wanna sing
And the words are deep inside your soul
When somebody comes along together you sing a song
You just let the music take control

And I wanted now
I just wanna spend my life with you
Time will show me how
Suddenly everything has turned me inside out
turned me inside out
Suddenly loves the thing that I can't live without

You are my dream my love my life
I just wanna spend my life with you
You are the one that makes me smile
I just wanna spend my life with you...........

Friday, November 21, 2008

HOW TO BECOME A SENSATIONAL LOVER......

To become sensational lover is not an impossible things but it is not that easy also. Every one in this world wants to have successful love relationship. There are few certain techniques and method to keep romantic spark alive in their relationship.

So let us now discuss some most amazing ways to become sensational lover in order to get success in their relationship.

1. To become a successful lover one has to maintain proper link between their love relationship and sexual needs. You should not always try to engage in physical activity alone. Note that, you will become a sensational lover only when you are aware of all the emotional and physical need of your partner. This will make your relationship more romantic and thrilling.
2. Always express your love and feelings to your beloved. Indulge in saying “I LOVE YOU” as many times you can. Do not hesitate or feel shy to tell how you love them. Because unless or otherwise you express they will never know what you feel.
3. It is very essential for you to care for your beloved to become sensational lover. Care and love will show them how dearly are they for you. Always try to understand their problems and care for them emotionally and financially as well. If your partner is going through a bad situation, then try to spend maximum time with them and make them feel that you are always their for them. Never make them feel alone.
4. Show lot of affection to your partner by kissing and hugging them. These small things will make your relationship spicy and successful. This will help you to become romantic lover too. Try to take your partner for very romantic outing; this will make your partner feel top of the world.
5. Try to do some special things for the person you love. Express all your desires and feelings openly in front of them. Try to offer gifts and flower as this will add some essence to your relationship. You can also write some interesting love notes for your lover.

All these are few important things which will help you to become sensational lover and perfect love for your partner. Love your partner in such a way that the essence of your love remain in their life forever though they apart.

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND ATTRACTION?

What is the difference between love and attraction?
Before going to the differences of love and attraction, let us be clear with its meaning first.

ATTRACTION: attraction is a kind of powerful emotion. If you are attracted to a person that mean that either you like that person or impressed by its outer quality. Attraction is no where connected to the inner feeling of the emotion.

LOVE: love is very powerful emotion. If you love someone that mean you are just crazy about that person. Love involves the inner feelings of the emotions. It comprises of intense interpersonal attraction. When one is in love, they feel they are at top of world.

Now, let’s go with the differences between them……..

• The first and fore most difference between love and attraction is that love is pure and it stays forever while attraction is just for time being.
• Next, if you love someone you cannot forget them easily while attraction fades away with time.
• Love involves inner beauty and feelings while attraction involves the liking for outer appearance. If you love someone one then you love them for whatever they are.
• Love do not diminish with your affection is in unattractive state, they still continue to love if you are suffering from worst disease also but it don’t work with the attraction.
• You may be attracted to many people but you love only one.
• If you attracted to someone that does not mean that you can spend your entire life with them but if you truly love some one then you would want to live with them till eternity.

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

MEND YOUR HEART


Are you not able to get over your break up? Is your heart still in a million of pieces? Well then don’t worry here is a good news for you. I will give you few tips which you need to follow and mend your heart. And by following these few tips you can be happy again like before.

So it goes like that:

• Don’t suppress your feeling. Take out all your frustration in which ever way you want. The best method I would suggest you to take out your frustration is hit the punching bag as hard as you can.
• Instead of crying in pieces. Cry it together once and for all and then make promise to yourself that you will not cry anymore.
• Run for miles so that it will take off all your negatives energy. And you will start thinking positive. By suppressing your feelings it will spoil you and your health too which very precious to do anything.
• Stop thinking about the time you spent with each other. Because that will again trouble you and will not allow you to heel your pain.
• Instead of criticizing yourself your mistakes and inabilities. Look at yourself with new eyes and make yourself comfortable by telling that no one is perfect in this world.
• Learn lesson from your relationship and try to make that lesson as your strength and move forward. Make sure experiences make everyone a stronger person to face any situation.
• Keep yourself busy. Throw yourself in some jobs. Work extra hours. Plan weakened with your friends, move around and enjoy. Because life is full of opportunity. So try to grab them and use it to all extend.
• Make yourself independent by both financially and emotionally.
• You really need to heel all your pain before you think of love again.

I know what ever I said is not easy to do but there is nothing impossible in this world. It is always said that unless or otherwise you fall in life, you will never be able to stand. Let me explain you this with an example: the babies when they learn walking, they fall many times but still they continue to take efforts and finally they succeed. Because they have a strong feeling in them that they can walk. So never loose hope and dream more. Because unless or otherwise you dream, you can never make it as real.

Monday, November 17, 2008

DATING AND ITS TIPS


Dating is basically an activity typically undertaken by two people with the aim of each assessing the other’s suitability as their partner in an intimate relationship or as a spouse. The word itself refers to meeting and engaging in some mutually agreed activity. Dating is something where two people come to know about each other and spend some good time with each other. Dating is always the best option to propose your partner and by treating your partner in special way make them feel that they are at top of world. This would be the best way to express your feeling to them. Dating can also be a Regular date, double date, group date, blind date, long distance or holidating, and dating exclusively.
Now, here are few dating tips to succeed in your dating game:
• The first thing you need to do to succeed in your dating game is get prepared for your date. Decide for who you are looking for and be ready to commit for date.
• After that begin a regime of looking your best. By doing this you will hundred times more confident about yourself.
• Then ask yourself few honest questions about why you are dating and what you hope to achieve.
• Sort out your confidence level well in advance. Do all good things to boost up your confidence.
• To search a kind of partner you need, work out in advance. Join clubs, societies, sports events, drama groups etc where you are likely to meet various people. I know its cliché but you will not meet people by staying indoors.
• Take time off from dating occasionally if it’s not going well.
• Enjoy dating for what it is. You may not get a partner but may find a good people along the way.
• Never make yourself too available for every date.

Thursday, November 13, 2008

WHAT SOUL-MATE IS?

Soul mate is someone with whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity, friendship, love, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality and compatibility. finding true, soulful love is not a destination, it's journey. real and lasting relationship with spiritual soul mate requires a inner work and outer preparation.

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

TIPS FOR SOLVING CONFLICTS BETWEEN LOVERS

Every relation goes through a tough situation some or other time. Fights and conflicts are part of a relationship. When one partner is going through a tough time then it’s a duty of other partner to help him out. This will show their love and care towards them. Conflicts in relationship will affect other aspect of life so try sort out the problem as soon as possible. There are some tips to solve relationship problem in better and convenient way:
1. First try to settle your insecurities. Be honest and readily accept your mistake, if you made one.
2. Maintain a healthy communication. Try to engage in open and free communication with your partner. Do not hesitate to tell anything whether good or bad.
3. Stay calm and composed. You will never be able to solve a problem with anger and hatred.
4. Avoid arguments on unnecessary things. Remove all your ego and pride while dealing with your partner.
5. Show kindness and learn to listen to each other. Make them feel special and comfortable while listening to them. Try to show more and more love and respect to each other.
6. Understand and share each others personal values. Misunderstanding develops when there are misconceptions and misinterpretation of thoughts.
Follow these tips in order to solve and avoid conflicts in your love life.

Monday, November 10, 2008

trust and understanding- the key for successful relationship

Most of them in this world carry some relationship with every one around them but all the relationship want something that is love, trust and understanding. You may love your “love” to all extent but love without trust and understanding has no essence at all. A love without trust and understanding will never last forever. It will be an unsuccessful and worst relation you ever carry. No matter how much you love your “love”, how much you trust and understand is what matter.

love vs game

"love is the only game that two can play and both can win" is the fact because success of love is achievement for both who are committed to each other. Its the only game which every one wants to play with all their efforts, trust and loyalty. In short love is life.