Tuesday, November 18, 2008

MEND YOUR HEART


Are you not able to get over your break up? Is your heart still in a million of pieces? Well then don’t worry here is a good news for you. I will give you few tips which you need to follow and mend your heart. And by following these few tips you can be happy again like before.

So it goes like that:

• Don’t suppress your feeling. Take out all your frustration in which ever way you want. The best method I would suggest you to take out your frustration is hit the punching bag as hard as you can.
• Instead of crying in pieces. Cry it together once and for all and then make promise to yourself that you will not cry anymore.
• Run for miles so that it will take off all your negatives energy. And you will start thinking positive. By suppressing your feelings it will spoil you and your health too which very precious to do anything.
• Stop thinking about the time you spent with each other. Because that will again trouble you and will not allow you to heel your pain.
• Instead of criticizing yourself your mistakes and inabilities. Look at yourself with new eyes and make yourself comfortable by telling that no one is perfect in this world.
• Learn lesson from your relationship and try to make that lesson as your strength and move forward. Make sure experiences make everyone a stronger person to face any situation.
• Keep yourself busy. Throw yourself in some jobs. Work extra hours. Plan weakened with your friends, move around and enjoy. Because life is full of opportunity. So try to grab them and use it to all extend.
• Make yourself independent by both financially and emotionally.
• You really need to heel all your pain before you think of love again.

I know what ever I said is not easy to do but there is nothing impossible in this world. It is always said that unless or otherwise you fall in life, you will never be able to stand. Let me explain you this with an example: the babies when they learn walking, they fall many times but still they continue to take efforts and finally they succeed. Because they have a strong feeling in them that they can walk. So never loose hope and dream more. Because unless or otherwise you dream, you can never make it as real.

2 comments:

Unknown said...

in a luv relation , one feels for breakup coz f some reason ... n after tryin hard makes up mind to go ahead in lyf n succeeds ... n eventually dat person falls in luv again wit other person after some time may be few months or years .... n even at dat time d other person who didnot wanted breakup still waits for dat person to come back ....

Unknown said...

d way u have given an exmple ki how baby learn walking after strugling n not giving up d hope .. d same way even relations shud not be given up in any form or atleast witot tryin ...